How to Make Rose Water Toner

I love simple solutions that can be made from my own backyard. 

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In my latest skin care post, I talked about buying products I love and then working on a DIY version that mimics the store bought one.

Some things are difficult to DIY like foundation and concealer. I would never recommend you making those. It's practically impossible to get right. 

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Some things are more time consuming to DIY like sunscreen or soap. Thankfully, some things are really, really easy to make like toner! This toner is only made with two ingredients. As a bonus, it's simple to get these ingredients without creating trash.

The first ingredient is roses. I have a rose bush outside of the house, and it's been so hot they're all starting to wilt. 

I decided I couldn't let these beauties go to waste, and thought I should make some rose water! Rose water is the multitasking MVP every beauty lover should have in their fridge or their cabinet. 

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why's rose water so cool? 

Why!? It can do everything. 

  • It's anti-inflammatory which will help reduce redness and help acne.
  • It's antibacterial and helps to heal scars and open wounds like that pimple you popped yesterday.
  • It's hydrating keeping your skin balanced and relieves that dry, itchy feeling. 
  • It balances pH. You have to be careful when DIYing your beauty routine that you keep the pH balanced. If it's out of wack it can lead to breakouts and other problems. 
  • It controls excess oil without dehydrating your skin. 
  • It's an antioxidant which helps regenerate new skin cells.
  • It's astringent to help clean pores, reduce redness, and tone the skin.
  • Helps to soften fine lines and wrinkles.
  • The rose scent helps you to relax similar to lavender.

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The second ingredient is alcohol-free witch hazel.  I know, I said these products could easily be found without trash. I know not everyone has a rainbow grocery near them. But, I recently stumbled on to the Refill Revolution where they have witch hazel in bulk. 

Witch hazel is another awesome product to keep around your beauty cabinet and your emergency kit. 

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what's so great about witch hazel: 

  • It's an anti-inflammatory which helps to reduce swelling and reddness. 
  • It's an antioxidant preventing free radical damage from UV rays, pollution, stress, and poor diet etc. 
  • Apply topically to help with cuts and wounds, cracked heels, razor burn, in grown hairs, even hemorrhoids 
  • Helps soothe itchiness from a dry scalp to bug bites and even poison ivy.

Both of these ingredients are great for your skin. Witch hazel is considered one of the best natural ingredients for fighting acne. This toner is soothing, light, super easy to make, but most importantly - it works really well!! 

If you've been a reader for a while, you know I've struggled with acne. You can read more in this post. My skin is better now, but I'm never sure what will set it off. The oil cleansing method did not go over very well for me.

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Everything still seems to be a guessing game, but I noticed a huge improvement when switching to rose water and witch hazel. If you struggle with skin texture, redness, dry skin, or overly oily skin, I would highly recommend you give this a try. 

The ingredients can be bought fairly inexpensively, and if you don't like the toner, there are TONS of other things you can make with rose water. 

  • Can be used to set your makeup
  • Spray on after a long day to feel refreshed and rejuvenated
  • Bags under your eyes, forget cucumbers. Apply chilled rose water with a reusable cotton pad for five minutes
  • Apply rose water to damp hair, wait thirty minutes and rinse. Get's ride of frizzy hair, deeply conditions, and adds shine
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how to make rose water toner: 

  • roses any color you like
  • filtered water 
  • witch hazel
  1.  Pick all of the petals off of the roses. I used 7-8 roses.
  2. Rinse the rose petals washing off any dirt or bugs. 
  3. Place the petals in a pot and cover with filtered water. The water should just be covering the petals. I covered my petals with 2 cups of water.
  4. Turn the stove on low heat, cover with a lid, and let simmer for 30 minutes to an hour. My petals were on the stove for an hour. 
  5. Check on it every 15 minutes to keep an eye on the water level. My water level decreased by half. 
  6. Strain out the rose petals and you have rose water! 
  7. Pour one part rose water and one part witch hazel into a vessel to use as toner. 
  8. Keep in the fridge for a couple of weeks. 
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**Pro tip: freeze any leftover rose water in an icecube tray. This will keep perfectly portioned 2 tablespoon cubes ready for all your future DIYing. 

What are some of your skin care essentials? 

Going Zero Waste When Your Partner Doesn't Want to

I have been absolutely loving married life. I get goofy excited about my husband when I think about him. He's so kind and handsome and he snuck out of the house before I woke up this morning to bring me a veggie breakfast burrito without any packaging.

How do I go zero waste when my partner isn't on board???

Love y'all. That's love. 

It's funny because I get all sorts of messages when it comes to love, romance, and my husband. I get angry emails because how could I ever marry/date/interact with another person who eats meat!? 

I get sad emails about the inability to make any zero waste changes because their partner isn't on board. I get emails wanting to know the black magic spell I used to conjure up the perfect supportive man. 

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So, I want to tell you a little secret...... 

Justin wasn't always on board with zero waste. 

Can you imagine, just out of the blue your partner comes home and says, "Honey, I've decided I want to stop making trash." Kinda weird right? Like where is this normal, sane person I was dating, and what Koolaid have they been drinking? 

I get it, I totally get it. 

It takes time for people to adjust. You didn't make the decision to go zero waste in one moment. You probably at least thought about it. It took a couple of articles or learning facts about climate change, health benefits, cost comparisons, proximity to package free goods, etc. before you decided to go all in. 

For anyone struggling with zero waste and a partner, I thought it would be helpful to get a different perspective. I interviewed Justin. He was a littler nervous about the whole thing... he's not really a spotlight kinda guy. So, give him a little love. 

How do I go zero waste when my partner isn't on board???

what did you think when I first told you I wanted to go zero waste?

Well, to be honest, I was surprised. It came out of nowhere really. You never really talked about the environment or being vegetarian prior to that. 

how was living with a zero waster in the beginning?

It was a learning experience for sure and kind of annoying at times. I just didn't understand the point of donating a perfectly good reusable plastic water bottle to upgrade to a stainless steel one. 

Now, I understand more about the problem with plastic from both the health side and environmental side. 

how far into zero waste living did you start warming up to the idea?

I warmed up to the idea fairly quickly mainly because I grew up in Maine which is a pretty environmentally conscious state. We don't really have litter and have recycling/compost services.

I'm not the biggest fan of plastic bags and had already been bringing my own bags to the grocery store before I met you. Also, the reusable water bottle culture is strong where I'm from everyone carried a Nalgene instead of a Klean Kanteen. 

do you consider yourself to be zero waste?

I'm not 100%. I still have impulsive urges for packaged snacks mostly. I try to be more aware of what I buy. I take the snack, the packaging etc all into consideration. I look for brands that have recyclable packaging or made from recycled content. 

how do you feel being married to a zero waster for life!? / how’s living with a zero waster now?

I love it! It all makes a lot of sense to me, and I'm not sure why more people don't embrace these practices. Simple things like bringing your own container for takeout or using a bamboo toothbrush are so easy!

To be honest, I don't really notice. I mean we've been doing this for a few years now so it's just life.

what zero waste things do you participate or not participate in and why?

I do most things zero waste. I bring my own water bottle with me, and I always carry a handkerchief. I bring my own bags shopping which is usually just my backpack, and I try to be aware of packaging in general.

I still buy regular toothpaste and deodorant because it's what I'm comfortable with. I use Toms of Maine because I'm from Maine and I like that we can send the products back through Terracycle. 

what’s your favorite thing about living zero waste?

Hands down the bidet attachment. Can't live without. 

what’s been your least favorite thing about living zero waste?

All of your science experiments in the kitchen... and fridge.... and freezer.... 

how much zero wasting would you do if I weren’t a part of your life?

I don't think I create a lot of trash, but I did have a problem with letting go of things.

You've really helped me see value in minimizing my possessions. Having fewer things has helped me focus more time and energy on the things I really love.  

have you ever felt pressured to go zero waste?

I haven't felt pressured I just "saw the light" I guess. Once you take a look at packaging and see all the plastic around you, it just makes sense to make more of an effort.  

It just makes sense. 

This is what I try and tell people all of the time. It just makes sense. It's a whole bunch of little tiny changes that add up to massive impact. I also love where he says, " I mean we've been doing this for a few years now so it's just life." 

I always try to explain this to people. I don't even feel like my life is different at all! I honestly can't even tell. I am normal. I do everything everyone else does, just a little differently. 

lead by example:

The key to helping your partner understand this is time, patience, and kindness. 

You have to lead by example. Things might change overnight for your partner or they might not! And, that's OK. Justin and I have probably some of the biggest most "upsetting" (to some people) lifestyle differences. We consume differently; we eat differently; we have different religions. But, we still love each other so much! 

Why? Because we respect each other. I respect his choices even if they don't align 100% with mine. Without respect, this whole thing unravels. 

be respectful: 

The moment you believe your partner is not "kind," "compassionate," "smart," "capable," you fill in the blank "________" because of their beliefs, you've lost. 

I have never once doubted Justin's intentions. Just because we don't see eye to eye on everything doesn't make him less of a compassionate person towards the earth. There are multiple ways to do things, and somewhere out there lies a compromise. 

Instead of forcing him and nagging him to join me, I just did my thing. If he wanted to join, great! If he didn't, oh well! My decisions are MY decisions. His decisions are NOT my decisions. 


I like the toothpaste example. He doesn't like toothpowder. That's fine. So, now let's ask some questions, what toothpaste do you like? (He has always used Tom's of Maine, but let's say he didn't.) He likes crest and it has microbeads! Yikes! 

I would explain to him the problem with microbeads and ask if he's thought of switching to a type that doesn't have microbeads. I would present all the facts about microbeads. Knowing this and alllllllllllll of that information, the answer will most likely be, yeah, I can find a different type of toothpaste. Compromise.

Another example, poptarts. Justin LOVES poptarts. Every couple of months, he'll buy a box of poptarts for comparison we used to buy two boxes of poptarts a week. I personally think me asking him to change this habit would be unreasonable. But, he respects my deicison for less packaging and buys them less often. Compromise. 

you do you:

You can only control you. You should only worry about the things in your control. Take some time and focus on yourself. Be the best human you can be!

If your heart is in the right place, I promise you, after you've been authentically living your lifestyle change, you'll start to see changes in those around you. It just takes time. 

And, of course, most importantly always remember to be kind. 

I would love to hear stories about you and your partners on the zero waste journey. How has lifestyle differences impacted your relationships?